Why Every Leader Needs Behavioural Flexibility & How to Achieve It

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Leadership is one of the most written about topics in business. You can be an ‘Authentic Leader’, a ‘Facilitative Leader’ or an ‘Agile Leader’.

Some of these labels may have currency, others do not. What is true is that there is no one, indisputable, formula for effective leadership.

Things that great leaders do

What’s common across many of the contemporary leadership theories is that successful leadership is built upon four practices:

  1. Establish a clear vision
  2. Share that vision with others, in a clear and compelling way
  3. Provide others with the resources to realise that vision
  4. Co-ordinate the sometimes conflicting interests of all stakeholders

A fifth characteristic, that’s often overlooked, is the need for leaders to be able to flex their style, dependent on the situation. A business with its back against the wall, requires a different style to one which is enjoying a profitable, steady state.

Peter, a senior manager in a utilities business, described a situation where his boss failed to adapt her leadership style. They had to deliver on a 12-week programme and were 5 weeks behind schedule.

Peter said: “She’s great at recognising where the problems exist, but she’s not driving the accountability for getting them fixed.”

His boss’s high level view wasn’t enough. At this project-critical stage, she needed to grasp more of the detail – both of the project and of the dynamics in her senior team.

She was missing at least three of the five leadership practices and wasn’t adapting her style to the changing circumstances.

As people move into leadership positions and up into senior management, so they need to develop a wider set of skills. With each leadership transition comes a parallel shift in self-concept, for example, from an individual contributor to a team leader, or from a functional manager to an enterprise-wide leader.

The long list of skills leaders need

The ‘Bingo!’ call for a full-house of leadership capabilities is dependent on;

Quite a demanding list.

The higher you rise in the organisation, the more of these skills are required. The distinctive leaders set themselves apart, not by adherence to a particular leadership creed, but by the way they behave. The wider their behavioural repertoire, the more leadership capabilities they embrace, the more effective their leadership.

The good news about behaviour is that it’s within your gift to change it. Unlike personality, which is more or less hard-wired into your DNA, behaviour – here defined as what you say and do – can be shaped, altered or radically redefined.

Most of the time you have control over your behaviour and can exercise choice about how you behave. Furthermore, behaviour breeds behaviour, and so what you say and do shapes the responses you get from others.

Persuasion styles: Push and Pull

Back in the 1970s a band of curious psychologists started to investigate the behaviours that differentiated skilled performers from average or poor performers in a range of business interactions.

Their studies resulted in behavioural success models for a range of interactions, most of which are included in the leadership Bingo list.

Since then, a group of enthusiastic businesses and individuals, has continued to test and amend these behavioural paradigms. Their work has enabled leaders to master the skills of, for example, influencing and persuasion, by learning the six skills underpinning the two most common persuasion styles: Push and Pull.

Each style is behaviourally distinctive and each is appropriate for different situations.

The Push style

The Push style goes like this:

  1. I have an idea or opinion that I share with you
  2. I tell you the reasons why it’s a good idea and/or why I’m correct
  3. You agree and you move your position.

Behaviourally speaking, Push style is characterised by three specific verbal behaviours:

  1. Proposing Content (suggesting an idea);
  2. Giving Information (providing the rationale); and
  3. Shutting Out (talking across others).

The solution comes from the influencer and it’s the influencer who does most of the talking.

Push style persuasion is the most commonly used. It works well in conditions where the influencer has positional authority, as is the case with senior leaders. And yet it’s only effective around half the time.

Sometimes this is because you may be an apologetic or aggressive pusher. Another weakness is being a mis-judged Pusher, where you reveal your solution early. In so doing, you under-estimate the strength of resistance you will encounter.

Take Simon for example – a middle manager in a multinational business. He needed to create a new direction for his team. In doing so, he articulated a clear, coherent plan and instructed each of his team as to who would do what, and by when.

For him, the logic was clear, the detail was exemplary and he was in charge, so the team was bound to agree. Push style was a no-brainer.

However, Simon had overlooked a fundamental question: How important was it that he gain everyone’s commitment to the plan? If engagement is essential, then a Pull style is much more likely to work.

The Pull style

Pullers use three behaviours in particular:

  1. Seeking Proposals (e.g. How should we best do this?)
  2. Seeking Information (e.g. Who has the relevant experience?) and
  3. The rare but highly prized skill of Building – extending or developing a proposal made by another person.

Building is used much less frequently than is warranted. This is usually because the persuader is much more interested in his own ideas and fails to harness the suggestions of others.Leadership - behavioural flexibility

If Simon had focused on engaging his team, he would have used a Pull style, rather like this:

  1. Simon asks the team for their ideas
  2. They offer some options
  3. Simon then asks questions to explore their suggestions
  4. Simon builds on their suggestions
  5. Together, Simon and the team agree a way forward.

In this way, the level of commitment of the team increases in line with their engagement.

Pull style can also be effective in fostering collaboration and in coaching others to use their resources. Pull might take a little longer but the rewards outweigh the costs.

For example, in a recent performance appraisal discussion, Sian wanted to convince Tom of the need to work on his presentation skills.

If she had defaulted to a Push style she would have told Tom what she wanted and why. Instead, using a Pull style she was able to get a better understanding of why Tom’s presentation skills weren’t where they needed to be – the underlying need, not the presenting issue.

They explored various options for addressing the shortfall and Tom was committed to the outcome. The effort was worth the gain.

Developing your behavioural flexibility

The starting point for developing behavioural flexibility is to understand and practice what are known as “General Interaction Skills”.

This is a collection of 13 verbal behaviours identified from research into effective team and group work. As a result, leaders are better able to manage meetings, develop solutions, work collaboratively, positively impact the climate, lead with questions, ensure shared clarity and manage participation from across the group.

The 13-category model is the basic building block for behavioural flexibility. Or, if you like, the four corners of your Bingo! card. The bigger prize comes with mastering the other leadership skills, each winning you another mark on your Bingo! card.

Developing behavioural flexibility is not just about knowing what to do and exercising those behaviours skilfully. It’s also about knowing what not to do and avoiding potentially costly mistakes.

When asked how he learned to be a leader, Antoine de Saint Affrique, the CEO of the world’s leading cocoa and chocolate manufacturer, Barry Callebaut, replied: “I made sure I learned not only from the great leaders I was lucky to work for, but also from the less good ones. From them, I’ve tried to learn what not to do.”

The humility required to reflect on your own and others’ behaviour as a leader and to then change and flex as required is the one element that a leadership Bingo! winner should never be without.

About the author

This article has been written exclusively for ByteStart by Ally Yates, author of ‘Utter Confidence: How what you say and do influences your effectiveness in business’ and an expert on Behaviour Analysis. She combines a deep understanding of people and how to achieve results, based on her many years’ experience of working in business.

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